Deborah Katchko Gray

I’m a fourth generation cantor, and the second woman to serve a conservative congregation (1981). My years at Boston University were enriched by studies with Prof. Elie Wiesel of blessed memory. I am still learning from his wisdom and teachings. While at Boston U I got involved at the Hillel and met Sherman Teichman, a program director like no other. I fondly remember the Leviathon Leather workshops, the Lehrhouse programs of study, and outreach, creativity and energy that even a wonderful place like BU Hillel just could not process or contain. I am thrilled to be reconnected with Sherman in this wonderful endeavor. I believe in mentoring, sharing, and creating connections. In l982 I sensed a need for a like-minded community of women cantors and founded the Women Cantors’ Network. It has grown to be a lifeline for hundreds of women cantors, soloists, musicians, rabbis, and people exploring the cantorate. It is open to anyone interested in learning and sharing. www.womencantors.net I’ve been a pulpit cantor for decades and are on the brink of retiring. I love sharing programs and ideas- Sharing the legacy of my grandfather’s music in a new era using guitar chords in female friendly keys is a passion of mine. I published perhaps the first cantorial book with guitar and female voices in mind. I’ve enjoyed doing workshops for cantorial students and teach for the European Academy for Jewish Liturgy by zoom.

Fiber art and Judaica has been another passion of mine. I’ve been making Swedish Weaving tallitot for many years. The idea of making a personal tallit for my four sons has evolved into years of teaching and publishing a book on it. Prayerful Creations. Using fabric from family members makes it so meaningful- literally connecting with your loved ones as you pray.

Recently I was challenged to help create a Women of the Wall choir. I call it the WOW Choir! It is amazing to see and hear over a dozen young women sing and harmonize the prayers for the Rosh Chodesh Women of the Wall services at the Kotel. The struggles continue, but the harmony lifts up the voices and prayers.

I love writing as well, and I’m working on a book “Class Notes- A Lifetime of Learning with Elie Wiesel”. I also like writing smaller things for Times of Israel Blogs, and Jerusalem Post. All my writings are found at www.muckrack.com.

I am thrilled to be part of this community of mentors and seekers. May we all continue to grow, create and make waves for the future.

I'm so excited to share this creative adventure with my friend Beth Styles- I've had a  dream of using nusach from my grandfather, Cantor Adolph Katchko and creating new music that keeps the nusach theme throughout while making it meaningful with English and singable uplifting melodies. I have an essay attached describing the idea behind it, and the two recordings are listed above- Please let me know what you think- how you think you can use them in worship. We have pdfs available, hoping to go through Transcontinental and Oysongs to distribute. There are solo and choral versions of the pdfs. For now, you can contact me for the music. 

Adonai Malach- My Strength, My Rock includes the words Am Yisrael Chai! The opening music is a recording of my father, Cantor Theodore Katchko z"l with me adding harmony years later. Bringing the family musical traditions together and moving forward feels right. 

Let us continue to pray for Israel and the hostages. 

Shalom- Sing a New Song to God